The Power of Consistency
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When you find the activities that grow your business, you can become an unstoppable force when you do those activities consistently.
Click now to discover how.
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When you find the activities that grow your business, you can become an unstoppable force when you do those activities consistently.
Click now to discover how.
If you have had a life experience that you think people could benefit from hearing, then this episode is for you. Today I am joined by Cortney Donelson, author of Clay Jar Cracked.
In the midst of a life experience, Cortney realized that she had a message to share.
She has built her experience into the perfect trifecta which includes:
Click the triangle to listen to the podcast and learn how she’s doing it.
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Cortney believes the content for her writing only came to fruition after experiencing one of the greatest tragedy-turned-love-stories ever told.
Her first book, which will be released by Morgan James publishing on March 7, 2017 called Clay Jar, Cracked, and her devotional blog, “As a Clay Jar,” are the products of her passions, faith, heart to encourage others, and God’s provision.
Cortney lives in Charlotte, North Carolina with her courageous husband and her two extraordinary children. She works for International Mission Foundation.
[shareable]Your Bravery is like a muscle. It grows the more you use it.[/shareable]
Complete interview transcript is available here.
This doesn’t have to happen all at once.
It doesn’t have to happen all in this order.
Your Bravery is like a muscle. It grows the more you use it.
This is very iterative. You will need to do this again and again.
It takes time.
This is art!
[callout]I would LOVE it if you would leave me a review on iTunes![/callout]
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In March of last year, Hyk was nothing more than a mostly-empty storefront that was in the process of being converted from a t-shirt shop to an upscale outdoor retailer.
Ben Ferguson, owner of Hyk, and his team had more questions than answers:
Find out how Ben and his team coped with the transition, what they learned, if the story had a happy ending.
This single hour could give you the inspiration to take your business to a whole new level in 2019.
What
Converting Your Retail Experience for Success at the Estes Park Startup/Meetup
Who
Ben Ferguson, Owner of Hyk
When
Wednesday, February 6 from 8:00 AM to 9:00 AM
Where
Coffee on the Rocks, 510 Moraine Ave, Estes Park.
This live, in-person talk will be delivered only once, so if you miss it, its gone.
[guestpost]Troy and Taryn Mason write at intentionallyrefined.com. Intentionally Refined is a website dedicated to inspiring and encouraging you to improve you, improve your marriage, improve your relationships, and more. They do this by discussing: self-improvemnt / personal development, marriage and relationships, productivity, goal planning, health, and more.”[/guestpost]
I am an entrepreneur. In my business (I assume in your business as well) the environment is constantly changing.
There are constantly new things that we have to learn and implement. There are new strategies, new technologies, new ways of doing things.
We have to plan. We have to capitalize. We have to implement. We have to make it profitable.
I not only have the stress that comes with running the business and working on projects for clients, but I also have the stress of adapting the company to a constantly changing environment.
If you’re like me, you handle the stress really well. At least you feel like you handle it well. You manage all of the things I just mentioned. You get it all done. You’re a productivity machine.
But you know this comes at a cost. There’s only so much of you to go around, and when things get crazy at the office, the home life suffers. I neglect my wife and my kids.
I don’t intend to do it. I don’t want to do it. But I do it. Maybe I’m not as bad as some people are about it. But I’m not as good about it as I want to be.
It’s actually pretty easy to fall into the trap of neglecting the family. I mean, you’re working this hard for them right? They know you’re busy. They understand.
You want to give them a fulfilling life. You want to give them more than you had growing up. Those are great intentions, but when it really boils down to it, all they want is you.
They want to spend time with you. They want you to pay attention to them. Your spouse wants you to answer his / her two prevailing questions. (Shameless plug – On our blog you can read about his two prevailing questions here and her two prevailing questions here, or if you’d like to subscribe to our emails, you can click here).
I would never discourage you from working hard and growing your business. But I would encourage you to stop, just for a few minutes, and make time for them.
When you’re gone from this world, do you want them to say, “He built an awesome business!” or do you want them to say, “He was an awesome husband / dad. He loved me so much.”
Deep down, they want to say the latter. Take some time for them. Blow a day off from work once in a while. It will still be there waiting. Show them that they are more important than the business

See more from Troy and Taryn Mason at intentionallyrefined.com.
I made this video to offer one quick tip for my readers.
This is perhaps the best way I know to gain more control over your life, and gives you a defense against things that would otherwise derail you.
To get even more great tips on gaining control in your life, go here to get a free copy of my book.
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We all dream of having so much organic traffic coming to our site that list building becomes effortless.
Those of us who live in the real world, however, don’t have a bajillion hits of organic traffic each week. We’re willing to build our list any way we can.
Recently, I was talking with a member of my community, Jonathan Hill. He and his wife, Faith, run Fortified Health Club.
Jonathan told me of an amazing success he had with a tool which is a sister product to a service many of us have heard of in this community — LeadPages.
I won’t go into detail on that now, but I do want to talk about the tool Jonathan is using: LeadDigits.
LeadDigits is a premium product you can get when you choose one of the higher levels of service offered by LeadPages.
[shareable]A great way for public speakers to build a list! Completely automated.[/shareable]
Many of you have seen signs when you’re around town; “Text PIZZA to 47474 for a free slice and a drink”.
Jonathan put this very technique to use when Faith was delivering a talk at a local chiropractic clinic a few days ago.
[callout]Disclaimer: I don’t want you guys to get hung up on the audience size. What I want you to concentrate on is the conversion percentage.[/callout]
Let’s go to Jonathan now as he frames the scenario:
[guestpost]The talk was called ‘Toxic Beauty’ for a women’s event, and texting that phrase will get you a list of ingredients to always avoid in your cosmetics regime. Immediately after texting it, you will receive the list via email. — Jonathan Hill[/guestpost]
The step-by-step follows:
What blows me away is the conversion rate they received!
Of the 14 people in attendance in this room, 12 of them used texted the CLEARSKIN keyword to get the freebie Faith had offered.
For those of you keeping score at home that’s an 86% conversion rate!
[shareable]Read about this list building technique that garnered an 86% conversion rate![/shareable]
Imagine if you started doing this very same technique and began experimenting with it during your talks!
[callout]Try it right now! Text CLEARSKIN to 44222 to check out the user experience and to get the freebie![/callout]
If I understand the integration LeadDigits correctly, you can connect it to your existing email marketing system to do the delivery of the actual freebie.
It works just as if somebody were to opt in on the opt-in page of your site. I created a similar campaign for one of my clients several months ago, and we used InfusionSoft to do the delivery.
[reminder]What list-building hacks have worked for you? What ideas have NOT worked so well? Let’s get a conversation started![/reminder]
Experience is the best teacher.
Last year I went all out on a product launch. I had just purchased Jeff Walker’s new book, Launch, and devoured it cover to cover.
I HIGHLY recommend this book. If you are considering launching any kind of knowledge product, you are simply nuts for not reading this book cover to cover.
With that said, I followed the formula as well as I knew how.
I created a bunch of videos, and wrote a metric ton of emails.
I put everything into my fancy email marketing system.
In all it was a LOT of work, and after weighing the time I had invested, I really wasn’t that impressed with the results.
I had blown it somewhere, but could not figure out where.
I started over a few months ago.
I chose an entirely different market and took a totally different approach to developing the product.
I vowed not to spend a tremendous amount of time shooting videos and wrestling with email automation.
All of my efforts are going into rapid development mode.
Make a little, sell a little, learn a lot.
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On this launch, I’m doing everything differently.
I figured out that I blew it on the product development phase last time. I didn’t spent enough time with the customers first.
For the record, this time around…
If I followed any part of the textbook formula correctly, it was here in the pre-pre-launch.
Think of this as the market research stage on steroids.
I did interviews — lots of interviews.
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I interviewed somewhere in the neighborhood of 20 people — authors, coaches, experts, and a variety of people who had created online programs, and membership sites.
I had 4 questions that I asked each of them, and these came to me compliments of Brendon Burchard.
These questions are pure marketing gold!
I took copious notes during my 20-minute sessions with these experts, and then analyzed these notes for themes.
To anyone out there who wants to create some type of scalable knowledge product, I can’t recommend enough that you start here.
From here I begin to depart from the textbook formula simply because I just don’t have capacity to do all the steps.
So, in my new abbreviated launch I needed to warm up my audience. It had been 6-8 weeks since they had heard from me in the interview phase.
I warmed up my list by announcing guest speaker #1. Two days later I warmed up my list again by announcing guest speaker #2.
The day prior to opening the cart I sent my Get Ready for the Cart to Open Tomorrow email.
What follows is the day-by-day emotional account of how I felt at each step of the launch.
For those of you not familiar with a launch week, there is a LOT happening here. Many emails. New leads coming in from every direction. Lots of questions to answer.
Here is the series of emails that I had planned to send:
The cart is supposed to open on Monday and close on Friday.
I would love to tell you that everything went according to plan, but I was off schedule from day 1.
I had time scheduled to write the Open Cart email, however, an unforeseen client demand erased my time.
My launch didn’t start until Wednesday.
Mentally I felt like I was launching with one hand tied behind my back.
Launch Day. Finally!
I’m happy to say that I sent the Open Cart email, and I’m eager to see the results of all my hard work that I did during the research stage.
By the end of the day I sold a whopping two tickets.
I don’t know what I expected, but I expected way more than two sales.
Don’t get me wrong. I was extremely happy to be on the board, to have scored some revenue.
During my interviews several people told me how excited they were about attending. I just couldn’t understand why I had only two tickets sell from the entire list.
Ok, I know, I know. I should not expect a lot from campaigning a list of 23 people.
But, truth is, I really did expect more than 2 sales on my first day.
I had done my homework and created the very product they told me to create at the very price point they told me would work.
I start kicking myself for failing to remember the most basic of product research lessons learned a thousand times over in companies all across the globe — what the customer says and what the customer does are two different things.
I felt my marketing plans come unhinged.
If I can’t depend on even the most basic of market research to come through for me, if I can’t rely on my hard work amounting to anything, then why am I investing so much effort here?
Am I about to repeat the failed launch I experienced last year?
No new sales over night. Not feeling great at this point.
Not time to panic, but certainly not running a victory lap here.
I get another sale on Day 3, and this lifts my spirits a bit.
I have lined up a sensibly-priced conference room at a hotel here in town, and with this 3rd sale I have just about covered my costs for the event.
Looks like I won’t go in the hole for this event after all!
I can’t say I’m in great spirits, but I’m not in the doldrums either.
Since I opened the cart so late in the week I’m feeling a bit behind in my timing.
Should I close the cart on Friday?
Doesn’t feel right to do this because I’ve only had the cart open 3 days.
I check my email on Saturday morning and instantly turn into a basket case.
I had hoped the Launch Fairy would send me another few customers Friday night as people took time to get caught up on their emails from the week.
I’ve spent a lot of time preparing for this event, and it looks like I’ll have 3 paying attendees, 2 guest speakers, and myself.
Emotionally I am not doing well, and at this point I start entertaining all options.
I strongly considered calling off the event, refunding everyone’s money, and burying my head somewhere.
I really thought I would be a lot further along than this.
I also had to wrestle with when to close the cart.
I know that I should close the cart on Wednesday of the next week to stick with the regular one-week launch window, but who closes a cart on a Wednesday?
My regular workload for the coming week is pretty heavy, and I’m really having problems making time to write the remaining emails for next week.
I decide to use my busy work schedule to my advantage by expanding my open cart window a few days to Friday of next week.
By mid-day Saturday I realized that I needed to get some emotional distance from all this because it has been consuming nearly every free moment for the past several days.
I let the whole matter drop till Sunday evening.
By the end of the day Sunday I am no further along than I was on Saturday.
While I haven’t had any more sales in the last 24 hours, I decide not to cancel the event.
I had resolved myself to the fact that I would be doing a 5 person event, and would barely break even.
This wouldn’t be a total loss.
Every journey has to start somewhere, right?
On Monday evening I realized that I had completely forgotten to include any bonuses up to this point.
This could be a game-changer!
I whack myself on the side of the head for forgetting something as basic as bonus stacking, which I have read about 30 times.
I made a mental note to come up with some bonuses on the fly.
I’m on the road today, so I can’t do much on the launch.
My extreme workload keeps me from creating the bonuses today, but I did manage to capture a few ideas in my journal.
Emotionally I slide back to negative territory. I hyperventilate at the thought of doing a 5-person event, and I am back to wondering how I will even remotely save face in this predicament.
Despite my quandary I draw a very firm line in the sand — I will not comp anyone a free ticket to this event or offer any scholarships just to inflate the headcount.
I already did this once this year during another one of my workshops, and I said I would not do it this time.
I need to grow my marketing skills, and feel that providing free seats is just a way to fool myself.
Announce Bonus #1 – Email Marketing Summit
My workload and client calls don’t provide much free time during the day.
I manage to make phone calls to 2 of my prospects, and both times I had to leave messages.
I do manage to create my first bonus — a free ticket to my upcoming Email Marketing Summit —and this feels like real progress.
I craft my Bonus #1 announcement and send it to my list.
At least for today I was able to beat Resistance. I showed up. I created. I shipped.
It feels good to fight back!
One new sale!
I can’t tell you if it was Bonus 1 or the phone call I made the day prior, and it doesn’t matter.
My inbox showed those magic words that I love so much “You’ve got money!”
With this newfound enthusiasm, I double down on my attempts to reach out to my prospects by phone.
I creating a phone list with the name and number for each person on my prospect list.
I rack my brain on what to offer for my second bonus.
I don’t have time to create a new information product, I don’t have time to shoot and edit videos, and I don’t have time to write a new report.
In addition to my workload, my daughter is starting swim practice, which takes some portion of my time 2 days a week.
I’ve been married for 20 years, and I really value spending time with my wife each day. She’s been very understanding with this launch consuming most of my evenings, but I know I can’t push this much further
I come to realize that I’m doing this launch in the margins of my life — with the leftovers.
The lightbulb comes on part-way through my day!
I realize that my client load tapers off immediately following my AEPC Group event, so I decide to offer a few bonus coaching sessions to incentivize my prospects.
I created a quick “bonus coaching calls” calendar in my TimeTrade account, and created several slots of available times. It looks doable, and fits perfectly around my client commitments.
I draft my Bonus #2 email and send it out to my prospects.
Emotionally I’m feeling really frustrated.
Remember when I said that I had started the day with a phone list for my prospects? I only managed to call 2 of them. Like yesterday, I had to leave messages both times.
I end the day feeling good for having figured out my bonus #2 issue, but mixed because I really could use a few more sales.
Time is running out.
Friday morning. No new sales.
Part of me is ready to throw myself off a cliff, and part of me is ok with this being a 6 person event (including my 2 guest speakers).
I rationalize that I at least made progress.
At least I sold 4 tickets.
This is the most money I have ever charged for one of my events, and at least I sold something.
Right?
I sent my final cart closing email using my email marketing system (remember, I’ve just been using gmail this entire time), and include one of those fancy countdown clocks.
Looks really snazzy!
Finally!
By closing time on Friday my email inbox registers 5 more sales!
I can’t believe it!
Keep in mind now that I’ve broken so many rules and gone against so many conventions that it is a miracle I sold even one ticket.
This is the highest paid self-promoted event that I’ve ever run.
On my first fledgling attempt about 12 months ago I ran a workshop where I charged $25 a head, and sold about 10 seats.
On my second event I partnered with several affiliates, and made a little more. Had almost 40 people in the room, but had to scholarship several people to get head count that high.
In this, my 3rd self-promoted event, I had no affiliates and provided no scholarships. I had 9 paying attendees and was able to actually pay myself something for my time.
Emotionally I am over the moon now, and I feel I can hand-carve a hole in a mountain.
No obstacle is too big for me on days like this!
I’m ready to tackle the world!
Sure, my list was only 23 people. Some could argue that I could have saved myself a lot of time by just doing a phone campaign for a few days.
I agree.
Yes, I probably would have been able to accomplish the same results far quicker by just working the phones, but I didn’t want to turn this into a phone campaign.
I specifically wanted to grow my skills in doing a scalable launch.
You see, the same effort that I put into doing this launch for 23 people could easily be spread to 230 people or a list of 2300 people.
You can only scale phone calls so far.
What I learned here by doing this stripped-down version of a launch — a minimum viable launch — now gives me the confidence to invest more time and effort to follow the textbook more closely.
In fact, if you want to take a look at what I would do differently in launching my next product, just sign up to receive my updates. You’ll be the first to see the article where I do the postmortem on this launch.
As business owners we all realize at some level that getting a list of people’s names and emails should be pretty important.
Yet most of us don’t do it.
Seriously, one of the biggest things we can do to grow our business goes completely undone.
I think I know why – most of this advice doesn’t fit my business (and I’m guessing doesn’t fit yours either).
If you go online you’ll find a ton of advice. You’ll hear lots about “giving away something of great value” and “free ebook” and “downloadable kits”. This advice is all well and good if you actually:
Otherwise, who has time to aimlessly post on a blog or can find an extra 20 hours to write an ebook?
Ok, so let’s back up for a minute.
Maybe you aren’t a techie.
Maybe you don’t have a blog or a website.
That is perfectly fine because building a list of potential clients can be done just the same (or better) offline than online.
Here is a list of just some of the methods I’ve tried to generate opt ins from my blog:
I have driven traffic to these opt in pages through just about every channel including
I would have to say that most of these have left me with incredibly miserable results. In all I think I’ve had about 20 opt ins from all of these tools.
About 3 months ago I became so frustrated with my online efforts that I decided to take matters offline.
Here is one offline list building hack that is working quite well for me. In fact, I just used it last night, and I’ll bet that nearly anyone reading this page can implement this simple technique with similar or better results by the end of the day.
What these experts don’t address is how to start from a zero base, how to start from nothing when you are building a following.
This is my situation as I have paltry site traffic, and don’t have 3 years to blog every day in hopes that the gods of SEO will favor me. I must take matters into my own hands.
You can do this without feeling gimmicky or smarmy, and it is perfectly safe for introverts, too.
You can do this much the same way I have, just tailor the wording to fit your business.
Here is one technique that has been working for me.
I know you’ve seen these things several places in your town, maybe at a grocery store, your dry cleaners, or in a local mom and pop restaurant.
Go find one of those cork boards where people tack their cards by the dozen. You’ll find things like realtors, mortgage people, your local Avon rep, and then you’ll find a lot more. I love working with new and aspiring business owners, so I’m looking for business cards that, quite honestly, look like they’ve been done for the first time.
I came across such a cork board a few days ago and harvested 20 cards from it. At home I simply use email (introverts unite!) to reach out to people one-to-one. Here is the exact text I used in my outreach letters that I sent last night.
John, I know you are busy, so I won’t keep you… I just wanted to know if I could stay connected with you? I research entrepreneurs and offer classes to help you build your business and make more money. The classes that I offer through Rowan Cabarrus Community College are FREE to the general public. I’d love to add you to my list. Is that ok? Enjoy your evening, Jason P.S. - If you’d like to check out my work and what I do, just jump to my site jasonrowens.com. P.P.S. - I have a class in SALISBURY coming up soon. I can notify you when registration opens.
There are a couple of nuances here that help. Sure, I could have just copy/pasted this same text on everyone’s email and been done in half the time.
However, I found that using the last P.P.S. to customize the email to be very important, and this single piece of customization accounts for most of my opt ins.
Examples that I use are “I love the owl on your business card”, “My daughter has been taking riding lessons most of the year”, “I really like how you integrated your ETSY store into your site” or anything else that adds a little touch of customization to the email.
You come across as being very genuine here because you ARE being very genuine.
Here is one of the exact responses I received last night. “Thank you for contacting me. Yes, I’m interested in hearing what you offer. PS: thanks for the compliment …. I love owls.”
In the span of 5 minutes at the cork board I have 20 names. What I’m looking for at this point is engagement. Typically I get anywhere from a 10% to 20% optin rate from these emails.
There is a way that you can put all of this in turbo mode and really jack up your opt in rates. If you want to know how I boosted my opt in rate to over 50% using a variation of this offline technique, just ask.
[reminder]What have you done to boost your list-building efforts? Please leave me a comment below.[/reminder]
It happened again just this week. Someone reversed course on me. Didn’t do what they said they were going to do.
I had been running a phone campaign pretty heavily all week in an effort to book speaking gigs and workshops. I had a great conversation with one individual in particular. We connected on one of my workshop offerings, and the answer was, “Call me back tomorrow so we can book some dates.”
Now, I know. I know. A true salesperson never gets emotionally involved in the sale. I should do a better job of distancing myself, but I’m selling me, my dream, my message, so it is a little difficult not to get emotionally involved in the sale.
I did call back only to hear the dreaded, “no”. Something had come up, and he is not able to book me at all. Ever.
As many times as I have been through this, it still feels like a personal rejection. Like I’m getting dumped at the 7th grade dance.
Readers, when this happens to you, you must understand exactly where you are. For years, I did not understand what was at stake, and I did not know how to navigate this inner terrain.
When you meet with that instant of jarring defeat, there is only one thing you can do.
Years ago, before I was familiar with this part of the roller coaster, I would go straight to just feeling rejected. I was hurt, so I did something to nurse my wounds. This usually involved some type of “woe is me” catastrophizing or getting out of the house to run some errand that had suddenly become so important.
This week I did something much different — I got back on the horse. You see, for me, if I don’t pick up the phone and make that next dial, I have a great history of letting that loss, that rejection, become the defining moment of my day.
When I met with rejection in the past I used to go down this mental spiral of despair. It involved doubting my call, thinking I was misinterpreting my purpose, and waking to the fact that God was really trying to tell me that I just wasn’t cut out for this. Then I would spend the next few days not doing anything really productive in my business.
I can’t tell you how many times I did this.
Years later as I started studying individual performance for my doctoral degree I learned that there is a name for what I was doing. It is called emotion-based coping. It is classic avoidance behavior, and it is usually not a good thing.
After I had some time and some distance I was finally able to see just how damaging my behavior was to my long-term success. Now that I can see this — the accumulated effect of my emotion-based coping — it makes it much easier for me to pick up the phone to place that next call.
I have learned the valuable lesson of making a molehill out of a mountain. What could be something that derails your entire day can, instead, turn into just a momentary loss if you treat it right.
In sheer determination of NOT allowing my setback to ruin my day, I picked up the phone and dialed about half a dozen more prospects. I could feel the sting of rejection start to leave with the very first call.
By the end of call #4 I had spoken with someone who wanted me to send a proposal.
I did, and she booked a workshop!
Years ago I would have missed this win because I would be nursing my wound of rejection for the next several days.
When you fall, get back on the horse.